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Posted Sep 14 2015 by Dave Darby of Lowimpact.org

I joined Redfield Community in Buckinghamshire in 1996 and lived there for 13 years. It’s a Victorian mansion in 18 acres of woodland, fields, gardens and orchards – a registered housing co-op with around 15 adults and 8 kids on average, although people come and go. Having said that, it’s quite a stable community – there haven’t been many more than 100 members since it was founded in 1978. Redfield runs occasional ‘Living in Community’ weekends for people to come along and stay in the community, with discussion groups, tours, slide-shows and presentations about what it’s like to live at Redfield and other communities. More below, but first a bit more information about Redfield.


The place was purchased from the council for £70,000, with loan stock from the original members, which was slowly paid off from rental income and extending the mortgage. Now all members are landlords and tenants at the same time. Everyone pays a monthly rent to the co-op. Rents are kept low because members put in two days per week work – this could be in the gardens, working with the animals, splitting logs, maintaining the property, admin, cooking, cleaning etc. This means that members have paid work outside the community, but part-time.

yurt and tipi

The founders set up an ‘asset-lock’, which means that if the property is ever sold, the proceeds have to go towards setting up another community, or else to existing housing co-ops, communities or umbrella organisations. This means that there will never be a financial incentive for members to sell the property, and it means that Redfield will continue to be a community in perpetuity, or its sale will boost the co-operative sector (by about £5 million, nowadays). The paying off of the loan stock also means that new members just start paying rent to the co-op – they don’t have to have any capital to join, and they don’t have to be ‘bought out’ when they leave. I have great admiration for Redfield’s founders, who locked in the co-operative aspect, didn’t look upon the purchase as a personal investment and allowed people to join with no capital.


All decisions in the community are made by consensus at fortnightly meetings. When people ask (as they often do) ‘who’s in charge?’, the answer is ‘the meeting’ – i.e. everyone. Some people insist that there must be someone who is in charge in reality, but no, there isn’t – that’s how co-ops work. Plus there are always enough strong characters there who don’t want anyone to take charge. Control is embedded in the group, and consensus means that no-one can be out-voted and have to go along with something they really don’t want to happen. Everyone has a veto, but consensus is about talking until a compromise can be reached that everyone is happy with. In reality, in my experience, things just work themselves out. It’s incredible what can be achieved by talking, without anyone imposting their will via a hierarchical structure.


When I described to people what life was like in the community, I always said that it was like a large extended family. Not everyone has to be your best friend, but there’s trust and mutual support. There’s always company if you want it, but privacy if you don’t (the ground floor is communal and private rooms and units are on the first and second floors). It’s a great place to bring up kids, with other kids to play with, an 18-acre garden and lots of ‘uncles and aunties’ to interact and keep an eye on them. I think that this kind of life produces well-balanced, happy young adults. They seem to do quite well at school as well, in terms of mixing with other kids, and passing exams. One girl I met as a three-year-old when I joined, and lived with for 13 years, will soon be a doctor.


Evening meals are eaten together, and people sign up to cook. This means that you only have to cook about once a fortnight, but it takes all afternoon. After leaving the community, I tended to go a bit over the top when cooking a meal for two. I’ve worked out portions now though. A lot of the food is home-produced, and that includes meat (pork and lamb), eggs and honey (and more recently, fish) as well as fruit and veg. Vegans are welcome, but it wouldn’t really work for vegans who object to animals being kept at all, or to anyone else eating meat. Animals are all free-range of course, and pigs are kept in woodland, where their wild ancestors would have lived. Sometimes crayfish are pulled out of the local stream, too.


There is no common philosophy – another fact that baffles a lot of people. I think they have the wrong image of communites, maybe having a religious or political slant, and possibly with a ‘guru’; definitely not the case here. People come for different reasons – because they like living with other people, they believe in co-operative ownership and decision-making, to share resources, to learn skills, or maybe they just like the idea of living in a mansion with an 18-acre garden. I know I did – but it was also the environmental focus here that I liked too. The place is heated with a biomass boiler, roofs are covered in solar panels, lime is used instead of cement, the whole place is organic and there’s a lot of informal sharing and recycling going on.

straw bale buildings

The community gets lots of visitors – mostly members’ friends and families, and WWOOFers, plus there are occasional visitor days and open days, and ‘Living in Community’ weekends have been happening for about 20 years, between one and three times per year, usually. It’s a way to find out for yourself what it might be like to live in a community. You won’t get the full picture from a weekend, of course, but you’ll definitely get a snapshot that could allow you decide whether to take it further or not.


During the weekend, there will be a tour; two discussion groups – one about the legal and financial aspects of communities, and another about the social aspects; two presentations / slide-shows (followed by a chat) – one on UK communities, and the other as yet undecided (either international communities, or how communities can contribute to bringing about wider change); plus a work session that isn’t compulsory – you can join in splitting logs or working in the garden etc., or you can just hang out or catch up on sleep. You get to eat with the community and ask as many questions as you like.


The next Living in Community weekend is Nov 13-15 (arrive Friday for dinner, leave Sunday afternoon), and there will be more next year. More details can be found on Redfield’s website here.